BLOG 55, OCT 23-29, 2023

SHORT BUT SWEET THIS WEEK!

I know it’s hard to believe that I could be short and sweet, does that mean when I’m not short, I’m not sweet? But we’re going to try to be both (short and sweet). I’ll remove this message if I didn’t succeed. 😉

Let's just say it was shorter than many former blogs.

FALL IS ALIVE IN THE PARK

I love watching week after week how the fall is peaking its head with its crisp air and leaves turning a beautiful bright red, pink and yellow. It’s all coming so quickly, but it’s so beautiful and we look forward to seeing the continued changes, until the leaves have all fallen off and then we enjoy what it offers in the wintertime.

Each day the park changes into Fall! 


DISTRICT COUNCIL IN PERSON AND LUNCH

We had an incredible in-person District Council, followed with a lunch. What impressed me more than anything is the inspired questions and discussion that lasted for an hour and a half. I was so impressed!

In our last two France missions, Steve and I have attended over 3 years total of District Councils, and they were all wonderful, but there has been something uniquely amazing with this district. There is a genuine and sincere desire to learn, share and discuss with one another. I’m not sure all the reasons that it has been so different, but I feel the district leader, just as a parent, can set the stage of how a district intentionally interacts with one another. The love shown, the genuine care and spirit filled questions have been so awesome, which in turn generates an amazing conversation with one another. These experiences when they return home, can turn around to be amazing teaching tools in their homes, in their work, at school and as leaders. I made sure to bring this out in our meeting at the end, of how impressed and inspired I’ve been with each of them and their District Leader. They need to know how amazing they have been.

The beloved district!

Ok, so what about lunch? They all decided on Raclettes. You have to have a special Raclette machine to melt the cheese and heat the meat (there were only 2 machines available). They brought so many potatoes, cheese and meat slices, that I thought there was no way they could use them all. The potatoes were cooked prior, then pre heated again. Then you would melt the cheese, heat up the meat slices and put the meat on top of the potatoes and then the melted cheese over. They would load up their plates, and I figured they were done, finished! Yet, Elder Cheney had 5 loaded plates, along with many others would do the same. I was blown away by how much they ate of this favorite meal of theirs. We brought our own meal, but they love their Raclettes!

Eating their Raclettes, Elders Doyon and Marsters

Building a Raclette, starting with the potatoes on the right.

There many varieties of meat slices they would use. 

Here's the District!

Elder Marsters enjoying one of my Celestial Sugar Cookies.

ZOOM CHAT WITH HANSENS IN TOULOUSE

Wednesday, we had a lovely visit and update with Elder and Sister Hansen who are serving in Toulouse. They are doing amazing, and we shared back and forth ideas that are working well there and those areas working well here, all learning from each other. They are energetic and very dynamic in their great efforts.

Elder and Sister Hansen - Zoom meeting. 

CHÂTEAUX SEARCH IS ON FOR NEXT WEEK

Next Monday-Wednesday, Steve and I will be getting away to visit Dordogne, France, the valley of 1,001 Châteaux. We will only be seeing about 6 of them. Everyone we’ve spoken with encourages us to go. It’s about a 4 ½ hour drive from Lyon. A little get away from our apartment/office will be welcomed.

Steve went online to find out which ones were the most favorite of the plethora of Châteaux and a list of about 20 were the most admired. I only wish we had time to see all 20 of the ones we looked at.

We’ll be reporting next week with an overabundance of photos, no doubt, making up for this week’s short and sweet.  

This may not be one of the Châteaux we go to, but just an internet example of what is in Dordogne.

COMPILING MY NOTES FROM INSPIRED MESSAGES

After the weekend of October 6-8th, from attending the General Conference Leadership review via Zoom, then the next two days of Stake Conference, I’ve been working on compiling my many notes for the last few weeks here and there, with such inspired information. From these notes I’m feeling compelled that there is much I need to be learning from these three days. I’ve been so inspired by this compilation of notes and have a specific desire to put them into practice, along with the ongoing study of General Conference which continues to uplift and inspire me/us each day.

I love the daily discussion that Steve and I have about our studies each day. There is always something we learn, which will in turn bless our lives.

This quote from President Nelson was quoted multiple times in our Stake Conference. It must needs be that we hear it again. 

CONTINUED SEARCH FOR THE FAMILY OF GISÈLE

I have not given up in my search for Gisele’s family. I have now located all of them on social media, but they are either inactive on FB, or it’s private and they would not allow a total stranger in their lives. I have found a couple of addresses, and whether they are current or not, I will write a couple of letters and try that way. I feel so compelled for lots of reasons, especially since we are still in France.

This is Pierre and Gisele's family (not sure how long ago), but it was so fun to see. When I met them 45 + years ago, they were all small and much younger.  

During the week, I got a hold of 2 sets of missionaries as they supposedly lived in the same vicinity of possibly two of Gisèle’s children. I went through and shared my brief story and why I’m looking for them. They are so awesome to help us.

Elder Gillespie


Sisters Connors and Winter went also on a search for another member of the family that lived near them. No one was home when they went. We're not giving up. They love the story and want to help. 

DATE WITH MY DEAR STEVE

We stretched our date into two sections, first taking a beautiful walk at the park, not something new, but always a treat and the weather was gorgeous! We aren’t big on eating out (not often anyhow), unlike in Paris, where we ate out once a week for our dates, but because of dietary restraints now we enjoy our meals at home. But we certainly enjoy our time together, playing games, watching a wonderful movie and just feeling grateful to be together.

SUNDAY WORSHIP

Our numbers were small today because of vacation for two weeks in France, thus families take off. It was wonderful, nonetheless. Sister Ferrari is being transferred to Montpellier. She has been such a blessing to so many. She is always serving, translating, which she did today and loving everyone around. She and her companions brought a man who had just moved to Lyon two days ago from Liberia. He was the kindest man and is wondering how he’s going to learn French. It’ll come, he’s young, and a good man. We had a wonderful visit with him and asked for him to sit by us.

Sisters Stewart, Manate and Ferrari. How we will miss Sister Ferrari as she leaves this weekend. 

Sister Manate, was brought a cake for her birthday 2 days ago. 

We had a wonderful second hour, combined, 5th Sunday meeting. What was spoken of, was one of the important items we have been learning from the General Conference Leadership Seminar Review we sat in on and then Stake Conference speaking of much the same thing.

The main focus in this meeting, was on the Sabbath and preparing for a meaningful and spirit filled Sacrament Meeting; in how we prepare, how we show love and visit out in the foyer and then once in the Sacrament Meeting, the importance of reverence, focusing on the Savior and honor the beautiful ordinances we are partaking to renew our covenants. It was a continued witness of what we’ve been learning for the last 3 weeks. It was such a beautiful discussion-based lesson. Then we are to discuss at home how we can apply all these principles. I’ve been so captivated because of all the notes I’ve been compiling from all these meetings and similar topics. I will then be adding these notes to my document/compilation.

CHILDREN/GRAND CHILDREN/FAMILY MOMENTS

     Austin’s Cello Performance in his ward

Last week, I received a text saying that Austin had played his cello piece in his ward. I can’t remember if I have shared the beautiful arrangement of his playing Melinda Allred’s arrangement on this blog, but here is the piece with Austin on the cello.

Austin played this piece below last Sunday in his ward in Florida.  Melinda is NOT the one accompanying him here, but someone from their ward. You'll love the YouTube video of him playing with Melinda.

WATCH/LISTEN TO GUIDE ME TO THEE - DUET WTIH MELINDA AND AUSTIN

     Camille’s trip to the temple with the youth!

Camille was able to bring 3 of her children and other youth to the temple this week. What a joy it is to see these youth having this amazing opportunity. Jayden, Camille’s almost 16 year old, ended up being the one to do the baptisms for 15 youth, as the next group needed someone.

Camille with three Duckworth kids and other friends from their ward. 

     Memory photos that show up on my phone!

Periodically my phone, as all of ours do, will send a photo memory, and this one popped up. How I love them and seeing them three together.

Our 3 daughters, Camille, Janine and Becca!

     Becca and children video chat

It was so fun to video chat with Becca and her children on Friday, the day before she and Brian took off for California. The kids are being babysat by two of their great aunts, who love doing this for any of the great nieces and nephews.

Becca, Mason and Henry during our video chat.

     Becca and Brian’s trip to California

These amazing, spontaneous trips that Becca and Brian often do with children are because Brian can do them on a dime, from his amazing tips with getting lots of travel miles and big discounts on car rentals and hotels. He’s a master at this. They had a wonderful time in San Fransisco and other areas nearby this time.

Brian and Becca on their way to their CA adventure. 

Lombard Street

     Sister Maliyah Duckworth missionary email thoughts

This week I hit 6 months as a missionary!!!! Literally done with 1/3 of my mission... it's gone by so fast, I've learned so much, and I can't wait to see what this last year has to offer and what God has in store for me! There's nothing else I'd rather be doing right now.

One miracle from this week:

I went on exchanges with Hermana Danner again (she's amazing and always makes me feel so good! love that girl) and we had a confirmed lesson with our friend Gabe. To keep it short, it was an AMAZING lesson. K, when we got there this dude already had chairs set up outside for us, his notebook with notes and questions and his book of Mormon (which he's actually been reading from) on a table next to his chair, and he was just SO prepared!!! We taught him the entire restoration lesson and talked for over an hour. It was by far one of the most beautiful lessons I think I've ever been a part of. He was smiling ear to ear and nodding the whole time, and said he literally had goosebumps (aka he was totally feeling the spirit--as did we). I love Gabe so much and can't wait to update you guys on his journey!! I spy a baptism next transfer ✨️ nothing makes me happier than sharing about and watching how Christ changes lives.

Sister Maliyah Duckworth




     Elder Kyson Duckworth - missionary email thoughts

This week was crazy! We really had some amazing miracles happen that came about through some crazy means, but miracles, nonetheless. And honestly, this week absolutely FLEW by. The days just slowly get faster and faster. This area is so amazing, I can't even express how much I love it here and the people too. I don't have a ton of time to write this, butttt...

Here are some highlights from the week:

- Tuesday we had Zone Conference with our Mission President, President Snyder! It was amazing and I learned a ton. They talked about how we can ask better spiritually guided questions, and that once we do that the spirit can better help teach and testify to the person. We talked about a lot of other stuff too, but it was awesome!

- One of our investigators, Ana, is reading the BOM and loving our lessons and is on date for baptism next Saturday!

- Having lots of opportunities to lead conversations, lessons, and even guiding us in the area. I've learned a lot about the area in the 2 weeks I've been here.

- Got a baptismal date and found a new family through playing "What're the Odds?"🤔

One of the cool things I get to do on the regular is to just follow that one line I've always remembered from that old Robots movie: "See a need, Fill a need." (Or something like that) and really we honestly do this a lot when we're out and about. Whether it's recognizing in a lesson someone's needs and teaching according to them, stopping to help an old man pull his weeds in his little garden, helping a drunk dude get back to his home, or even just smiling and saying high to someone. Being kind pays off, and there's never gonna be a reason to not be kind. There is no better way you could spend your time in life than just being kind and spreading your Christlike love to others.

So I challenge you all to do this! If you see a need, fill a need. Ask for God's help to know how you can better help others lives, and I promise you will be helping yours in the process.

Elder Duckworth on the back left.  

Kyson catching his companions taking an unintended nap. 

GOSPEL STUDY REVIEW

     Book of Mormon

We need the guiding influence of the Holy Ghost daily in our lives.

Help others see the hand of God in their lives. He is always there!

The wicked stir up the hearts of the wicked.

Our commitment to God will allow us to receive the help and blessings needed to survive through the hard times of life.

The Lord hears the prayers of those who are sincere and desire to hear His direction in their lives.

All will stand before God to be judged according to their works.

The  Book of Mormon is of great worth for these the latter days.

 

     Come Follow Me

We need to live pure and affectionate lives in Jesus Christ.

2nd Timothy 1:7, “God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.”

Disciples of Jesus Christ treat one another like brothers and sisters.

It is essential to focus on inspired questions, not fables or myths with no depth of meaning or purpose.

Christ is the pillar that holds up the church.

Paul expresses the need to avoid the deceptions of the world, which often seems appealing. Many of life’s perils can creep into our lives if we are not vigilant and diligent in faithfulness.

Paul saw everything with an eternal view, just like President Nelson when he asked us to Think Celestial!

Conclusion:

May each of you know of our deep love for you, our admiration for you, and our gratitude for all you are, and are becoming. We were brought to this earth for this cause, to become what He knows we can become, to grow through our trials, and to know that God is over all and is mindful of each of us, loves us, and knows our heartaches and our great capacities, even in weakness. We know that God and our Savior Jesus Christ live, and we pray each of you may know and have confidence in this great plan of happiness they have prepared for us. 

 

With all our love,

Elder et Sœur Packer                                                                                            Grandpère et Mémé

801-336-6153 (Steve’s)

801-564-1332 (Renée’s)

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Les Missionaires – PACKERS

59 rue Bossuet

69006 Lyon FRANCE

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